Monday, January 20, 2014

So Long, Farewell!!


We're out!! We are sitting at Erica's waiting to go to the airport. It's been an exhausting last couple days...but well worth it :) 

Here's some photos of the progression of our apartment:
Living Room:



How it was
Packing packing

Most of the stuff gone on Saturday

Last day :)
Other side of the living room:





Our bed on the last night...air mattresses are the worst!!





The bedroom:




Wompa wa.
(Also...my two bags!! Well, also I have a backpack for my computer :D)


So, my initial plan was to take ONLY carry on. In reality, this was a bit ambituous for a novice world traveler ;) I'm pretty proud of the clothes that I have chosen...everything is well matched and can easily be mixed and matched with each other. I have a color theme!! But, when I went to put it in the bag...oh my gosh. Not even close!! Thank God Preston saved the day. He's taking a traditional backpacker's pack. It's huge...so I'm not sure it can be deemed a carry on :-/, but because of that...I was able to use his 2nd bag (a small duffle back pack) as spill over from my bag.

I'm suuurrreee I could have eliminated a lot of things. Truthfully...I feel like I'm taking too much. But, as I said...it's hard as a novice traveler to imagine living in 2 long sleeved shirts for 4-6 months :D I just didn't WANT to get rid of anything else. I guess we'll see if I regret it :) 

Here is my final count:

Black Fleece Jacket
Black Rain Jacket
Jean Jacket
Black Blazer
Gray Zip Sweatshirt
White Wrap (can double as beach cover up)
Black Long Sleeved (wool blend)
Brown Long Sleeved
Teal Hoodie
Purple/Blue (ish) Long Sleeve
Yellow Long Sleeve
Black T-shirt
Gray T-shirt
Purple/Blue (ish) T-shirt
Mango T-shirt
White T-shirt
Black Camisole
Gray Camisole
Mango Camisole
White Camisole
Yellow Tank
Teal Tank
Purple/Blue (ish) Tank
Jeans
Gray Zip off pants
Black Yoga Pants
Black Leggings
Gray Half Pants
Sweatshorts (for sleeping)
Jean Shorts
Khaki Shorts
Mango Shorts
Brown Hiking Boots
Gray Sneakers
Brown Toms
Black Ballet Flats (Tieks!!)
Black Flip Flops
White Flip Flops (for showers)
5 Pairs of Underwear
2 Bras
1 Sports Bra
1 Bandeau Bra
4 Bathing Suit Tops
2 Bathing Suit Bottoms
1 Black Convertible Dress
1 Black Skirt
1 Gray Long Tank for the beach :D
1 Gray/Black Scarf
1 Teal Scarf
5 Pairs of Socks


Getting artistic ;)
All laid out :) 

Clearly, I could have eliminated some of this...but alas...we got it all in!! I 

I'll update everyone when I buy a giant bag in Asia and just start checking everything ;) 

It's funny to be sitting around waiting to go. 2 more hours till we head to the airport!! First stop Fiji!! 








Sunday, January 19, 2014

Anddddd I'm unemployed!!


That's right...and totally by choice. It feels a little crazy. If I allow myself to sit for any time at all and really THINK about what we're doing...I get freaked out. I've woken up the last few mornings with my mind racing. We are really doing this!! We quit our jobs!! We have packed up all our stuff and we are GOING!! Out into the world.

Friday was my last day of work. I'm doing better just sort of not acknowledging all this. Sad goodbyes are no fun. I keep looking forward instead of back. Preston and I are so very lucky to have this opportunity and I don't want to squander a moment of it by living in the past. 

I shipped my car yesterday to Maryland. It will be better looked after by my family. It was pretty crazy giving a complete stranger the keys to my car and waving farewell. :) 

We packed up our apartment and moved most things on Thursday. Today we lose the couch and the bed and we'll be like squatters in here on an air mattress with only a few necessities. 

I'm trying to mentally prepare myself for the 12 hour flight that's ahead of us tomorrow :P Then we will be in glorious Fiji!! I don't even know what to expect. I guess a whirlwind? I hope I remember to slow down and take it all in.

I had a great night out last night with my girlfriends. We hit up Cowboy Country...an old favorite of ours. It was a great time and it really meant a lot to me that so many of them took the time to say goodbye. I know many of these friendships will last a lifetime.

I feel like it's so rare anymore that people take real adventures. Not too many wagon trains heading west these days ;) You have to make your own adventures and we are off on an adventure of a life time!! 


Tuesday, January 14, 2014

That time I got married Part II


Honestly, I was so suprised that I wasn't able to sleep the night before my wedding. I wasn't nervous about marrying Preston and I was sooooo tired, but I think I just had TOO much in my head.

Amanda, my cousin and MOH showed up early to rouse me :) She brought me an adorable little case that she made full of wedding day needs!! (Side note:Amanda has an online shop where she makes handbags...and they are AH-MAZING. http://milkandhoneyhandbags.com/)





Manda drove out with me to the farm. We were met there by my Dad and his girlfriend Yvonne, my Aunts and Uncles, my cousin Jack, my bridesmaids, Trisha's parents, Preston's parents, and his friend Rich. Everyone helped in getting the decor set up. We had a lot of ground to cover, but with so many people helping...it was finished pretty quickly. Henry and Donna (Trisha's parents) assembled a beautiful archway that Henry made.  



Here we go :D


My bridesmaids so sweetly brought me this 

All set up inside!!



Building centerpieces :D
The girls and I went upstairs into the beautiful bridal suite and just kind of hung around together. I had given everyone DV Biologics (my company's) shirts: "It's not you. It's meiosis" #Nerdforlife ;) The make up artist ended up being nearly 2 hours late (omg) and arrived with a terrible attitude, but we didn't let her get us down!! 








My reaction to the negative comments by the make up lady :P









My dad and Yvonne brought us Roy Rogers (my fave!!) for lunch. We feasted and sipped champagne.

Since the make up lady was so late, we were really rushed to take pictures before the ceremony. We didn't get as many as I would have liked, but before I knew it...we were ready to go.




All day it had been drizzling and threatening to really rain, but as if by some miracle...it held off enough that we WERE married OUTSIDE. Yay!!

It's all a blur to me as I walked down the aisle towards Preston.  I chose two really beautiful songs...the bridal party walked into an instrumental of "Shenandoah" and I walked in to The Princess Bride's "Storybook Love". I thought for SURE I'd be a balling mess, but somehow...I was resigned and held it together :) I kept my eye on the prize and went down the aisle. 

(I STILL don't have our wedding pictures...and honestly they aren't very good....long story, but thankfully...Preston's mother's friend took some great shots)
















Preston's neighbor and great family friend Dale married us in a ceremony he wrote based in poetry :) It was beautiful. At the end...he said that in our modern times, let it be the bride to kiss the groom :) I loved it!!




My Aunt Toni taped our vows!! What a treat :)

After the ceremony, we had an impromptu and unplanned receiving line. I hadn't really given it much thought, but I'm very glad it turned out that way because it gave us a chance to say a personal hello to all our guests...and I got like 100 hugs ;)



We took a bunch of group pictures...though, again, not as many as I had hoped (more on that later) and then went into the reception.




Preston had made an extensive playlist for the wedding. Music is one of his favorite things and he loves 'setting the vibe'. He did an awesome job!! The music list was made of timeless classics appealed to people of all ages.

My dad gave such a touching and great speech :D



Manda also gave an incredible speech 


I was really pleased with the food...except, apparently, the hamburgers were raw (eek). The cake was amazing. We had a photobooth, which was loads of fun. I'd highly recommend that to anyone. 






SMORES :D


I think probably everyone thinks that their own wedding is great and I am not different. It was a beautiful setting, we were surrounded by SO much love, the music was phenomenal, the food was good, and we had a great time. Best of all...the rain held off. It may be cheesy, but I like to think this may have been my deceased Grandpa's gift to me. :) 



We left amongst a shower of sparklers and departed in a private town car. As we piled in...all was quiet around the front of the farm house and Preston said, "I don't have my wallet or anything". The driver told us we could run back in to grab stuff if we wanted...so we sprinted across the yard and into the empty house doing a dash and grab for all our stuff as our guests finished up the party outside in the tent. It was a funny moment and we were so full of happiness and adrenaline. I'll never forget it. As we tumbled back into the town car and turned out onto the road...rain drops splashed down on the windshield. Incredible :) 

UPDATE:

This is a link to all our wedding pics for anyone that would be interested...the password is honeymoon.